~Friendship~
Let's change some environment....
Don't always use the same song...
haha^^...
Actually....
What is friends?
(singular=friend,plural=friends)
From my Oxford Advance Learner's English-Chinese Dictionary Fourth Edition....
It states that friends mean the person one knows and likes,but who is not a relation....
Well....
How many friends do you have?
1?
10?
100?
1000?
Infinity???
Different people can have different friends...
This is up to the person...
He or she can have many friends...
Or only a few friends would make them sacrifice...
From that...
Did you ever think that your friends is your true friends?
The friends you can share secret every times?
The friends you can chat happily every times?
The friends you will do anything with him or her?
The friends you would do anything to him or her?
Who knows...
You may have some of those characteristics...
You may willing to do whatever you can to your true friends....
But...
True friends...
Nowadays quite hard to find already...
Very hard to have one...
People nowadays is very greedy...
Just care about themselves...
For example...
You have a friends and you think he or she is your true friends....
Then you will be willing to do whatever things to him or her...
But for those greedy people....
They won't care about what have you done....
They will just get all your benefits and left you off....
Without a word of goodbye....
He or she will just think:"Who cares...It's him or her willingness....not my problems...."
Yup...
This will be the end of your friendship which you think is wonderful and forever for you...
Well...
Quote from Chee Sian,one of my favourite junior...
Don't judge people by the first sight and make a conclusion about them...
Hmmmm....
Somehow you have to give people the first appearance that he or she will be your friend....
First sight...
Is for people to decide whether the person is good to be a friend...
But not all people have the appearance that their friends want...
So...
Choosing friends not according to their face is good....
Because somehow...
Not all people who are beautiful or handsome,then the attitude are good...
Vice versa...For people who are don't have good looking,he or she also not seem to be a bad guy...
But what if he or she is handsome and good???
Or he or she is not good looking and unkind???
Yup...
It's correct that deeply knowing a person will make us know more about the person's actual...
But sometimes...
Some person are too closed and don't want to open the heart to let people know more about him or her...
Some person may too opened till you can't have it...
Haha...
A lot of people in this world...
Choosing is one part of human's life...
And choosing friends can be quite easy and can be quite difficult...
Got only 3 results out of these possibility...
One is you get a good friend...
Two is you get a bad friend...
Three is you not getting any of them...
So...
Try to know more about your friends...
You may know more about his or hers thinking...
He or she maybe have second spirit inside...
He or she maybe have more secret that you still don't know...
He or she maybe have more interest which same with you where you still not finding that out...
Then,having know more each others' information can make a person's relation more get in...
Who knows...
Maybe you have a lot of true friends around you which you don't know...
See around and try to figure out which of your friends care more about you...
He or she maybe is your true friends...^^
Good luck and have a happy day...
~Be Happy Forever~
~Be Friends Forever~
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